East Asia Guys’ FAQ
Here on this blog (East Asia Guys) you can sometimes read about real experiences I’ve had with young Japanese and Korean guys. Let’s call them “EAGs” for short. I sometimes write about these experiences in text posts or in captions to pics or vids, so you PERVs have access to various parts of my retelling of events. Earlier this month I posted two longish text posts on the topic of Korean guys. First one is here and the second is here. I received some interesting follow-up questions in my Tumblr in-box from PERVs who read my posts. Below, I’ll give you a sampling of these questions. And I’ll give you my replies.
Q: When you write about sexual encounters you’ve had, do you get a thrill out of telling about these hookups?
A: Yes, I guess I do. I’ve kept a lot of these memories to myself. When I type to the blog about a real experience with a young EAM, it’s usually the first time that I’ve shared it with anyone. But that’s not the main reason I write about these encounters. There’s a bigger purpose.
Q: What’s the main purpose?
A: Well, the idea is that a real story of a real hookup is exciting, hot, sexy. I want young PERVs to benefit from the informative particulars of the sexual experiences I’ve had with EAGs over the past two decades. You PERVs can get turned on. Go out and connect. Make love. I hope to inspire you, one post at a time, to take steps to unite PERVy East Asia! The blog itself is about joining a community of PERVs in Japan, Korea, Taiwan, China/HK (and the rest of East Asia) together along with world PERVs who dig EAGs. I’ve hooked up with a lot of EAGs over the years. The focus of my retelling is on them. I don’t mean to focus attention on myself.
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East Asia Guys
Q: In the universe of this blog (East Asia Guys), how would you describe the ideal EAG?
- in East Asia (usually)
- East Asian (predominantly Korean, Japanese, Taiwanese, Chinese)
- moderately slim to moderately muscular
Q: Are you an EAG?
A: No. I’m Western, middle-aged and not so slim anymore. On the other hand, I do live and work in East Asia. Also, some of us aging punks can remain stylish and attractive. (I suppose I’m slightly paunchy. I need to go to the gym more often. But I’m not bald, or massively fat or boring.)
Q: What’s a “PERV”??
A: It’s just a funny term I use for people who read this blog, many of whom also follow the blog. At this moment there are 24,748 followers. So, I say, “24,748 PERVs.” It’s just a stupid gag. It has no meaning.
Q: You write mostly in English, so are most PERVs from USA and Europe?
A: No. The blog is part of a network that’s connected with other East Asian gay sites. Every day, most visitors and followers come from all different countries, globally, but the top three countries where visitors and followers are coming from are: 1) Japan, 2) USA, 3) South Korea.
The blog is about EAGs, but it’s also visited by EAGs. That is, some PERVs are EAGs. (It may even be true that most EAGs are perverts, haha. Well, I don’t know that to be a fact. Haha.) But it’s a real mix. There are followers living in East Asia who are originally from the West or from SE Asia. Other tumbloggers that I follow are a varied bunch. Many are female. Many are black. Many are in Europe or Brazil or Mexico or wherever. I’m a middle-aged, white, North American male. What brings us all together is our shared obsession with beautiful EAGs.
Q: Do women/girls follow your blog?
A: Yes, about 30% of PERVs are female. I took a poll a few months ago.
Q: What do yaoi fangirls and you have in common?
A: I think I’m a fangirl in a grown man’s body, so my posts appeal to some females. By the way, I watched some JGV that was made for a female audience and I loved it. You can see it here: http://east-asia-guys.tumblr.com/post/58624545962/east-asia-guys-i-love-these-two-guys-is-it
Q: How did you hook up with so many cute, young guys in Japan and Korea? I mean, you’re much older than me. How come you get the boys and I don’t?
A: The encounters I write about happened over the span of a couple of decades – not all at once, not so frequently and not all so recently. When I had those business trips to Korea, it was several years ago. I looked mid-thirties, felt and acted mid-twenties and weighed 25 fewer kilos than now. But, even now I could hook up if I wanted to. As we age, the possibilities get thinner but don’t completely dry up.
Q: Really? I’m trying to meet Korean guys in Japan, but having little luck. What am I doing wrong?
A: Why only in Japan? If you want to meet Korean guys easily, you should visit South Korea. Note gwminkorea's comment to my post about KPOP cocks. He writes,
"I’ve lived in Korea for many years and agree with you. It’s so easy to find guys here - and very nice guys - that the next stage can’t be far away. Just spend a little time on Jack’d in Seoul and you’ll know what I mean. Enjoy your next trip to Seoul."
Q: How did you connect with these guys in Korea?
A: Well, those were the days of gay chat rooms on the web. We didn’t have smartphone and tablet apps back then. Now, you’d use Jack’d, of course.
Q: But, still, your luck with EAGs baffles me. How do you manage to get into their pants so easily?
A: Well, EAGs are as diverse in their tastes as anyone. And of course Japanese guys are very different from Korean guys and Chinese guys. But I promise you that there are hot, young EAGs for each of us. You can be Asian, white, black, Latino. You can be slim or fat or muscular. You can be old or young. If you know that a guy is gay and he shows any interest, you have a chance. The main factor, in my experience, is just to make yourself available and let EAGs know what you’d like to do with them. Don’t let yourself fall into a mindset where you think they’re too hip or too gorgeous for you. You can make it with hip hop boys, or male models, or all sorts of hot, young EAGs. (I have.) Just remember that they’re human males just like you (if you’re male). Most guys are not always as confident as they appear outwardly. Take a chance with cute guys. You don’t have to push, but just be available. When you get into a car with them on the first meeting, try breaking the sexual ice and inviting easy intimacy without too much awkward waiting. Unzip your jeans and invite them to grope the bulge in your underwear as they drive. That sort of thing. Try to make love, not just sex. Put your arms around them, nibble their earlobes, nuzzle their necks, or whatever way you make genuine love.
But these are all just techniques. Your overarching attitude toward young guys matters most of all. Even if it’s one meeting, you can treat them with respect, care, openness, good will and lovingkindness as human beings, not just cocks to suck. I’m not just saying this to sound high minded. It’s really practical. You can both agree that it’s just a hookup for sex, but at the same time you can handle it beautifully. Try it. It works.
Q: Would you tell us more about yourself?
A: No, thank you.
Q: Why not?
A: Two reasons — I need to protect my privacy and the blog needs to stay on topic. The topic is always EAGs. I’m not an EAG. So, I’m not a topic.
Q: If you value privacy, then why do you talk so freely about sexual encounters you’ve had?
A: Well, because it’s anonymous. I.e., I can give details of sexual encounters without revealing my identity. I think the value of sharing talk about real experiences is that readers of the blog — my fellow PERVs — all share an interest in kissing cute, young EAGs, sucking them, being sucked by them, building intimate friendships with them, and so on. Sharing past experiences is sexy and makes a practical difference (I hope). So, I share.